START SHRIEKING!

Some days I feel as if I am in the middle of a crowded room shrieking insanely but no one hears me.  No one looks at me.  No one stops what they are doing.  It is as if I am invisible. I don't understand this.  Are we not hard-wired to be responsive to our own?  [...]

There is no cheer for those who live the reality of the statistics…

On this Christmas Eve I would like to remind all of the readers of The New Forty that every 80 minutes a veteran commits suicide.  These are brave men and women who have served our country faithfully and come home only to suffer more - be it with reintegration challenges, PTSD, frustration with seeking assistance [...]

In remembrance and honor…

Today is my oldest son Noah's 30th birthday.  Just writing that causes me to want to additionally offer that I gave birth at the age of 10, but I will refrain because I know it borders on the line of being not very believable (alright, truth be told - I was 12). 😉 As regular [...]

Unacceptable losses

The suicide rate of active duty military members is up to about one a day.  When we add this to the 18 veteran suicides a day that have been documented over  the past few years we should be horrified.  One a day in active service is an unacceptable loss, 19 a day between active military and veterans is an unspeakable horror. [...]

Resolve refocused.

I have been so preoccupied these past couple of weeks with Mike's injury that I lost track of my self love new year's resolution.   Yes, I know this is the first regular readers have heard about Mike being injured.  He hurt his knee at work and is quickly approaching three weeks in the land of worker's [...]