God should have made me a Black lesbian.

Today California's Defense of Marriage Act was ruled unconstitutional by the United States Supreme Court.  Today our country's constitution once again served as the foundation for equal rights. Today the message from the Supreme Court was clear -marriage will be treated the same for the purposes of legality and benefits regardless of whether the marriage [...]

I can hear the bells…

I am gratified this morning to be greeted with the news that Minnesota's House passed a marriage equality bill.  Now the only thing between marriage equality is the Minnesota Senate and the Governor which are expected to likewise pass the bill and sign it into law.  This makes me happy.  This is an inequality that [...]

Added value…

Two of my former students are getting married today - Sarah and Tyler.  I will attend their reception this evening where I am sure I will also see a bevy of other EM alumni that remain close to them.  Sarah and Tyler are not the first pairing to come out of our program, there have [...]

It’s time to clean out those nooks and crannies…

The Forum has a choice to make.  Will it revise its existing policy on wedding announcements to allow for publication of same-sex wedding announcements? The opportunity for this choice arose from a denial sent to Allison Johnson by The Forum that informed her that the paper does not publish same-sex marriage announcements.  Allison wanted to announce her [...]

Congratulations Nadine!

I had to laugh when my friend Amy sent me the story about Fargo's Nadine Schweigert's vow to herself.  Amy picked up the story on Yahoo!, but I caught the original story on InForum (written by Tammy Swift).  Nadine Schweigert's marriage to hersef represented her public acknowledgement that "she has learned to love and accept [...]