Think about the life you are willing to exchange for it…

Some of my students dreamed up the term "CAROL-ING" to denote when a person is worrying about risk.  It is a backhanded homage to me, but I'll accept it graciously if it means that they are using my name to herald the behavior.  I do lecture them endlessly about risk - it is part of [...]

Little Snowdrop

One of my fierce girl friends lost her infant granddaughter on Wednesday.  Her daughter and son-in-law lost a child and a piece of their hearts.  Her family and her son-in-law's family lost the blessed addition of an adorable little girl to dote on.  But Heaven gained a beautiful, sweet, little angel. The little angel was [...]

Fallen

On June 30, 2013,  19 firefighters were lost while battling the Yarnell Hill fire in Arizona.  The fallen represent about 20% of Prescott's Fire Department.  It is an unbearable loss that is difficult to absorb even in a field where danger is a part of the day-to-day job. Every time a firefighter is lost, the [...]

And so I linger in the Butterfly Ball photo gallery…

I must confess, even though I had no butterflies at the ball I have looked at Forum photographer Carrie Snyder's Butterfly Ball photo gallery over and over again.  There is something about all those daddies with their young daughters that I find settling.  The young girls' happiness, the pride evident on the daddies' faces, the [...]

START SHRIEKING!

Some days I feel as if I am in the middle of a crowded room shrieking insanely but no one hears me.  No one looks at me.  No one stops what they are doing.  It is as if I am invisible. I don't understand this.  Are we not hard-wired to be responsive to our own?  [...]